PETANDA DIE ADALAH JODOHMU...

Tahu tak bile kite terjumpe seseorang dan berpasangan dengannya,ada tak terdetik dalam hati kamu yang dia adalah My Mr.Right,My Soulmate and Soul....???


Hanya dengan menatap mata dan mendengar suaranya,kita akan merasakan getaran dan seolah ingin hidup bersamanyer???
Then, let us see apakah ada petanda lainnya agar seseorang dapat merasakan bahawa si dia adalah jodoh ( soulmate) kita atau bukan???

PETANDA PERTAMA :
Salah satu kriteria yang menentukan sesuainya dia atau tidak,sebagai jodoh kamu atau bukan,adalah kemampuannya bersikap bersahaja di depan kamu. Cuba sekarang perhatikan apa gerak gerinya,cara berpakaian,gaya rambutnya,caranya berbicara serta gelak tawanya,mengesankan apa adanya?apakah ucapannya slalu tampak spontan dan tidak dibuat-buat?Jika tidak,maaf,dia bukan jodoh kamu.

PETANDA KEDUA :
Rahsia sepasang kekasih agar dapat memiliki usia hubungan yang panjang adalah dengan adanya saling kerjasama. Kamu dan dia dapat saling membantu samaada dlm perkara remeh ataupun masalah besar.Paling penting adalah kamu berdua selalu dapat melalui sgala aspek khidupan secara bersama-sama. Dan semuanya terasa amat menyenangkan meskipun tanpa harus melibatkan orang lain. Apakah kamu pernah merasakan perkara tersebut?? Jika ya,maka selamat....mungkin dia la pendamping hidup kamu...

PETANDA KETIGA :
Ada deria batiniah membuat hati kamu berdua dapat selalu saling tahu.Dan bila kamu atau si dia dapat membaca fikiran kamu dan menduga reaksi serta perasaannya satu sama lainnya pada situasi tertentu. Maka ..dia lah sebenarnya destinasi kebahagiaan kamu..

PETANDA KEEMPAT:
Ketika bersamanya,perasaan kamu amat selesa,dan berasa tenang tanpa perasaan tertekan. Walaupun berjam-jam,berhari-hari bersamanya takkan merasa bosan...ini lah petanda kelak kamu akan saling terikat..

PETANDA KELIMA:
Dia tidak terlalu peduli dengan masa lalu keluarga kamu dan tidak peduli masa lalu kamu dengan kekasih sebelumnya terdahulu.Dia juga tidak malu-malu menceritakan masa lalunya..kalaulah mcm ni,bermakna si dia memang dah bersedia menerima kamu apa adanya...

PETANDA KEENAM:
Setiap orang memiliki kekurangan dan kamu tidak malu-malu memperlihatkan padanya,bahkan saat kamu tampil "buruk" didepannya,misalnya baru bangun tidur atau saat kamu sakit,tak mandi 2 hari,atau kamu menceritakan sejujur-jujurnya kelemahan kamu pada si dia....MEMANG kamu diciptakan dan ditakdirkan bersama dengannya...

PETANDA KETUJUH:
Dia slalu ada bersama kamu tak kira apa jua pun situasi kamu ,samada suka dan duka,dalam semua keadaan,ingatlah sewaktu kita susah,ada tak si dia orang pertama bersama kita? Apakah dia tahu kita sedang sakit atau tidak...?hmm..Jikalau ya, si dia lah yang akan sentiasa berada dengan mu pada masa hadapan..

PETANDA KELAPAN :
Bila rahsia kamu lebih selamat di tangannya berbanding teman-temanmu yang lain.Adakah kamu merasa sudah tidak dapat menyimpan ape-ape rahsia darinya,maka berbahagialah..kerana pasangan sejati kamu telah ditemukan...

Beza Lelaki dan Perempuan

Nak Tahu Tak,Ape beza Lelaki N Wanita???

Dari sumber-sumber yang dipercayai lah, kaji slidik mengatakan bahawa....:

1. Wanita sangat menimbang-nimbang masalah..suke pk byk...dan perubahan sehari2...
2. Lelaki lebih suka berbicara langsung,sesuai tujuannyer,manakala perbicaraan wanita terputus-putus dgn keraguan dan perasaan.Disebabkan serabut atra kedua perantaraan belahan otak kanan dan kiri (intuisi &logika), makanya ia lebih terjadi pd kaum wanita,shingga perasaan ekspresi terjadi pd wanita,kirenya lebih terpancar lah memek muka@pun air wajah nyer...
3. Kebanyakan wanita mengambil masa tidur lebih satu jam dari kaum lelaki pada waktu malam.
4. Bayi perempuan lebih cepat berjalan dan berbicaram,manakala bayi lelaki 2 bulan lebih lambat..
5. Sperma lelaki yang menentukan jenis jantina bayi...
6. Wanita lebih baik indra penciumannya disebabkan tingginya hormon estrogenyang diketahui sebagai hormon activator reseptor penciuman..
7. Hubungan rapat/intim lelaki ( di luar penikahan) dua kali ganda lebih banyak dari perempuan..hmm..hmm.........JAGA2!!
8. Mata lelaki rata2nye lebih besar berbanding mata wanita yang lebih banyak bahagian yang berwarna putih.
9. Secara umum,hidung lelaki lebih besar dari wanita. Sedangkan wanita rata2 mempunyai bibir yang lebih besar berbanding lelaki..
10. Lelaki akan memberi ruang yg lebih besar berhadapan dgn kaum nya sendiri ketika berkomunikasi,tak nak orang pk bukan2 lah tuh agaknya..
11. Kira-kira 40% lelaki berdengkur berbanding 22% wanita ketika tidur..
12. Jumlah wanita lebih banyak pergi ke tandas berbanding lelaki,dan wanita lebih suka ke tandas sebab suka2....nak betul2kan tudung la,make up la...
13. Kebanyakan lelaki bila berhadapan dengan wanita,akan menjadi tergagap berbanding perempuan bila berkomunikasi..
14. Kebanyakan cinta wanita lebih sedikit TETAPI sangat menghargai dan setia berbanding lelaki yang cinta banyak DAN senang curang..
15. Lebih kurang 30% kaum wanita yang seksual nye lebih aktif pada masa bulan purnama....
16. Rata-rata lelaki membaca lebih lama berbanding wanita,manakala membaca berkali2 adalah lebih ramai pada kaum wanita...
17. Perkahwinan yang memuaskan lebih banyak terjadi pada lelaki dengan usia lebih tua, dibanding pada wanita usia yang sama...
18. Kebanyakan wanita lebih suka pasangannya bergaya,bersih dan ke arah metroseksual....manakal kebanyakan lelaki pula lebih suka tgk yang BUKAN PASANGAN NYA bergaya,seksi meksi,terbelah sana sini DAN TIDAK SUKA pasangannya berketrampilan begitu...ape nak jadi tah..
19. Kebanyakan lelaki lebih suka memendamkan masalah dari pasangan nye berbanding wanita DAN takut di pandang lemah..

What women want???

A man must have a purpose himself
This reflects his will and strength in decision making. It also goes to show his degree of commitment when it comes to entering into a relationship. Most women look for this trait in a man for they feel that this would reflect his attitude and approach towards the relationship

Protective
Women have a tendency to see how protective their male partner is. Does he have the makings of being a good husband and a caring father? Bearing these aspects in mind she seeks a person who has a protective nature.

Healthy and strong
There is a general perception that women like men who are healthy and strong. This could be with regard to their physique as well as their emotional framework. Reasons could be many ranging from a healthy sex life to bearing an offspring. A healthy body goes a long way in this regard.

Confidence in one's self!
This is one aspect which also acts as a determinant in a woman choosing a man. A confident man shows the tenets of surviving in austere and trying conditions. This also reflects the mental make up of the man. What also draws a woman's attention is the body language of the man. A positive body language goes a long way in winning a female partner.

Sense of Caring
Men who show a genuine sense of caring also get the attention of women. Women like to feel as if they have your heart, and you will do anything for them. You don't have to spend a bunch of money, or give up your poker night, just melt a little when she comes in the room, and continue to be a man she can respect, so she feels special about being with you.
So it wouldn't be a bad idea for you to arrange a unique evening for your partner and cook a meal for her instead of buying her expensive gifts as the former will show your sense of caring!

Funny and witty
A few women also look for a sense of wit and a certain degree of humour in their man. So, if your kick off a witty conversation with your lady and top it with a few jokes then you have made your mark!

Men who are their real self
A woman looks for a certain sense of novelty with regard to her man. No degree of farce will help a man to get his woman for the farce won't last for long. So it is better that he remains his own self and presents his natural demeanor to his couple

Men are hard to pleased.

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are INLOVE with him

If u Don't, he says u are PROUD

If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are tryingto LURE him

If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG

If u ARGUE with him, he says u areSTUBBORN

If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS

If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE

If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT

If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u

If u Love him, he will try to LEAVEu (very true huh?)

If u don't make love with him., he saysu don't Love him

If u do he says u are CHEAP

If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says uare TROBLESOME

If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him

If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him

If he SCOLDS u , it is because he CARESfor u (Bullshit)

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot beTRUSTED

If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl

If he SMOKES , he is GENTLEMEN.If u do WELL in your exams, he says it'sLUCK

If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.If u HURT him, u are CRUEL

If he HURTS u, u are too ! SENSITIVE!!& so hard to please!!!!!

If u send this to guys, they will swearthat it's not true.......but if u don't, they say u are selfish

If u do WELL in your exams, he says it'sLUCK

If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.

Memang betul..kebanyakan lelaki memang banyak yang macamtu,tapi bila perempuan mengiya kannya,maka kaum lelaki akan melenting ...tapi....TAK SEMUA kaum lelaki macamtu...

Dari La Tahzan-ILMU PENGETAHUAN DAPAT MEMBERIKAN KEBAHAGIAAN KEPADA ANDA:"Dan (juga karena) Allah telah menurunkan Kitab dan hikmah kepadamu, dan telah mengajarkan kepadamu apa yang belum kamu ketahui"[An Nisa ayat 113] Kebodohan itu adalah tanda kematian jiwa,terbunuhnya kehidupan dan mensia-siakan umur."Sesungguhnya Aku memperingatkan kepadamu supaya kamu jangan termasuk orang-orang yang tidak berpengetahuan"[Surah Hud ayat 46].Sesungguhnya kebahagiaan dan keceriaan itu datang bersama ilmu pengetahuan.Ini kerana ilmu mampu mengubah sesuatu yg tidak jelas,menemukan sesuatu yang telah hilang dan menyingkap sesuatu yang tersembunyi.Dengan ilmu,jiwa manusia akan memperolehi pengetahuan yang baru dan selalu ingin mengkaji pengetahuan yang lain..

Huh..!! Haih..How to Let Him Know You’re Interested..

You won’t believe how often we hear this from the ladies, “I really like this guy, how do I let him know I am interested?”

Have Fun
Keep a playful, fun attitude. Above all you must keep it relaxed and fun. This lets your crush feel comfortable and willing to open up to you. Use this playful atmosphere to hint at your romantic intentions with small quips and flirty remarks. Be subtle, cute, and fun in your efforts to woo your crush. Once he is having fun, he will be more open to your advances.

Ice Breaker
The first move is often the hardest, especially when you are admiring a crush from afar. It is usually assumed it is the guys job to make that crucial first move. This rule isn’t set in stone, ladies can make the first move too. A great way to break the ice is a short and simple question, “I couldn’t help but notice you, would you be interested in going for coffee or lunch sometime?”. It may feel awkward and bold but you can do it. What have you got to lose anyway? Men we interviewed are almost always turned on by a girl who makes the first move:
“I love it when a girl asks me out, it lets me know right away I am dealing with someone who is driven and isn’t scared to lose.” -Edzrin 30
“There is nothing sexier than a woman asking me out on a date. I love a girl who knows what she wants, especially when it’s me!” -Dazzy, 28

Stay Open
It is important to keep your body language open and inviting when talking with your crush. This doesn’t mean opening your legs and licking your lips. This does mean keeping eye contact while holding a conversation, and smiling often. You want to appear comfortable, caring, and confident.

Tough Talk
It can be tough for a girl who wants to let her crush or good friend know she is interested. You feel awkward, you want to let him know, but you don’t want to come on too strong and send him running. In fact, the last thing you want is to do is scare him away. Here are some sure-fire subtle moves you can make to let him know you are the girl for him. You will be on that first date before you know it.

The Power of Touch
What about that guy at work you hit it off with? How do you send the right signal? One of the strongest signals you can give a guy is a subtle touch and a quick glance into his eyes. The timing has to be right, and you don’t want to grope him. Just a light touch on the shoulder and a quick glance in the eyes will do the trick. Make sure you don’t go overboard with this one, touch him too much or too often and he might be scared away.