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Friday, August 31, 2007

Love Mengikut Bulan....

January

  • Mudah jatuh cinta
  • Mudah melupakan perasaan cinta terhadap orang yang dicintai sekiranya dikhianati
  • Pandai mengambil hati pasangannya
  • Selalu berdiam diri ketika bertemu dengan pasangannya
  • Bersikap romantik tapi tidak pandai memperlihatkannya
  • Sikap cemburu yang tinggi terhadap pasangannya tapi tidak kisah sekirannya pasangannya cemburu terhadapnya
  • Bakal jadi seorang bapa atau ibu yang penyayang
  • Ramai kenalan, sedikit pemalu dan bersungguh-sungguh bila melakukan kerja

February

  • Sukar untuk jatuh cinta
  • Amat hormat kepada pasangan
  • Amat suka memikat pasangan
  • Jujur dan berterus terang dalam perhubungan
  • Sentiasa nekad untuk bersama dengan pasangannya
  • Sangat romantik pada dalaman dan bukan pada luaran(hanya pasangannya yang tahu)
  • Patuh kepada pasangannya dan selalu menjaga hati pasangan
  • Amat menjaga penampilan diri dan pasangannya

March

  • Mudah menawan hati pasangannya
  • Sentiasa ingin didampingi oleh pasangannya
  • Sangat pemalu dalam meluahkan isi hati
  • Sangat baik dalam menjaga perhubungan.- Amat sukar melupakan pasangan yang dicintai
  • Perasaan cemburu yang minima
  • Sangat manja dan sering ingin dimanjai pasangannya
  • Mudah memilih pasangan tanpa berfikir dengan waras
  • Sentiasa mengharapkan keistimewaan dari pasangan

April

  • Individu yang amat sukar untuk jatuh cinta
  • Selalu memendam perasaan terhadap individu yang dicintai
  • Sukar dan malu dalam meluahkan isi hati
  • Sentiasa ingin diberi perhatian
  • Amat cemburu dalam perhubungan
  • Kesetiaan teguh terhadap pasangannya
  • Emosi cepat terusik dan mudah terluka
  • Sentiasa menjaga hati pasangan dan pandai memujuk
  • Romantik dan terlalu romantik
  • Sukar melupakan pasangan walaupun dilukai
  • Sukar berlaku curang dan amat menyayangi pasangan

May

  • Amat mudah jatuh cinta
  • Baik dan jujur dalam perhubungan
  • Pandai menarik hati pasangan
  • Perasaan cinta yang mendalam
  • Mudah untuk di pujuk
  • Mudah menerima cinta seseorang
  • Pilihan yang tepat dalam berpasangan
  • Nekad untuk menjaga hubungan yang baik
  • Pandai mengatur hidup pasangan (bukan Queen Control atau King Control)
  • Suka mengangankan sesuatu yang indah bersama pasangan
  • Sentiasa dahagakan kasih sayang dari pasangan tapi tak pandai memperlihatkan
  • Ambil berat dalam menjaga hubungan


June

  • Amat pandai menjaga hati pasangan sekiranya dia perempuan
  • Sukar melukai dan memahami hati pasangan
  • Mudah jatuh hati tapi terlalu memilih
  • Cerewet dalam hubungan
  • Selalu beremosi
  • Mudah merajuk dan mudah di pujuk
  • Selalu melindungi pasangan dari kritikan atau umpatan orang
  • Elok untuk menjadi Ibu yang baik
  • Dahagakan pujian dari pasangan


July

  • Amat suka didampingi pasangan
  • Sukar dimengerti oleh pasangan
  • Sentiasa menjaga maruah diri, pasangan dan perhubungan
  • Amat mudah dipujuk dan berterus terang
  • Amat menghargai kesetiaan pasangan
  • Mengambil berat dan mengasihi pasangan
  • Berkebolehan untuk meluahkan isi hati terhadap individu yang dicintai
  • Mudah terluka dan lambat untuk pulih
  • Suka merajuk dan dipujuk
  • Setia terhadap pasangan
  • Suka mendengar dan tidak suka membantah
  • Cemburu terhadap pasangan
  • Suka menilai dan menjaga perhubungan


August

  • Pandai memujuk pasangan
  • Suka memimpin pasangan
  • Romantik, Pengasih dan Penyayang
  • Kelam kabut dalam perhubungan
  • Sangat sensitif
  • Mudah meluahkan kata cinta pada sesiapa yang berkenan


September

  • Bersopan dalam hubungan
  • Bertolak ansur terhadap pasangan
  • Suka mengkritik pasangan
  • Sangat prihatin terhadap pasangan
  • Sangat sensitif dan emosi
  • Pandai memahami pasangan
  • Kurang menunjukkan perasaannya terhadap pasangan
  • Sukar melupakan sekiranya hati terluka
  • Mudah simpati dengan perasaan dan masalah pasangan
  • Pandai menyimpan perasaan
  • Suka berterus terang jika perkara itu tak disetujuinya


October

  • Amat suka berkomunikasi dengan pasangan
  • Suka disayangi dan menyayangi pasangan
  • Sopan terhadap pasangan
  • Jujur dan jarang berpura-pura dengan pasangan
  • Mudah terluka hati sekiranya pasangan ada melakukan kesalahan terhadapnya
  • Emosi yang mudah terusik
  • Pengasih, Penyayang terhadap pasangan
  • Cemburu dan terlalu cemburu
  • Romantik
  • Memahami pasangan


November

  • Cermat dan teliti dalam menjaga perhubungan
  • Amat berahsia dengan pasangan dan sesiapa
  • Agak degil dan kuat pendirian
  • Mudah ambil berat terhadap pasangan
  • Emosi yang mendalam
  • Perangai tidak dapat diramal terhadap pasangan


Disember

  • Pemurah terhadap perhubungan
  • Mudah jatuh cinta dalam masa yang sama
  • Tergesa-gesa dalam perhubungan
  • Suka didampingi oleh pasangan
  • Benci bila dikongkong
  • Berbakat untuk kahwin lebih dari satu (Utk Lelaki)
  • Suka mempengaruhi pasangan

The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without EVER Realizing It...

Through research and personal experience some author, there found that these 3 mistakes are responsible for more failed dates and relationships with men than any other factors. Here they are:
Mistake 1: Leading A Man To Think You Are "Needy" And "Insecure"
Did you know that there are 6 ways you can set off a man's "Insecurity Alert" and make him think twice about pursuing a relationship with you?
Sadly, even confident women often "accidentally" give off one of these signs... and just one can kill the chance of a man asking you on a second date.
As you read through these signals men pick up on as "needy" and unattractive, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly mistakes:

Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends:
Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you.
Speaking negatively about other women:
When women call other women names like "slut", "bitch", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you. Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her. This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good.
Too much physical contact, especially in public:
If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him.
Mistake 2: Appealing To His "Sexual" Side Instead Of His Emotional Side
Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF. In a moment, I'll show you how you can learn to do just that...
Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well.
Mistake 3: Not Knowing How To Size Up A Man's "Relationship Potential"
A lot of women will decide whether or not they should put energy into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION.
Yes, attraction is important. But it can also be DANGEROUS.
When we feel a strong sense of attraction for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignore our instincts... leading us to overlook potential partner's deadly faults that could spell trouble down the road.
If you've ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that is dragging you down, this is probably why.
It's important to be able to size a guy up and spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship FAST... so you don't waste any of your time or emotional energy on someone who isn't right for you... or who will leave you heartbroken. Fortunately this is a fairly easy thing to do, and I'd like to show you how...

Secret how to keeping a great guy

The thing that stood in your way is that Men aren't easy to understand, and this is the main PROBLEM , and when you find a good man, he doesn't come with an "instruction manual".
Most women don't "get" men. Your friends who try to comfort and encourage you have good intentions. They're just trying to make you feel better.
Just because your girlfriends told you it wasn't your fault, or that he was just "a jerk", doesn't mean that they understood the problem (or that they understand men at all, for that matter).
But they're also accidentally making the situation WORSE.
They're trying to blame the situation on HIM, instead of trying to help YOU understand how to KEEP a great guy around.
This situation is MOST dangerous when you meet a really GREAT GUY, but you don't know how to catch him or keep him. Let's face it, great guys are hard to find... and when you do find one, you can't afford to lose him because you made a dumb mistake.
You can't afford to throw away a good six months, a year... or even LONGER... and risk losing what could be a valuable relationship... just because you didn't know how to handle a particular situation.
Well, there is some good news here... I personally believe that there IS something you can do about it.
You CAN learn how to understand men and get them to be open up and understand you. You can learn how to CATCH that great guy, and how to KEEP him.
And how do I know this?
Because I AM a guy. And I've been in all the situations I just mentioned to you... from the OTHER side.
I've seen it from a man's perspective. I've been in those difficult "places" in dating, relationships, and love.
After years and years of experiencing these types of situations and hearing about them from my female friends, I decided to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT...

Thursday, August 30, 2007

LoVe iS CiNtA

Cinta itu perasaan jiwa semulajadi.Ia adalah fitrah yang menjadi
salah satu sifat manusia.Ia wujud bila hati tertarik kepada yang
dicintainya itu penuh emosi dan gembira kerana itu.


Dalam memenuhi keperluan untuk puas dalam cinta,manusia menghadapi
krisis nilai.Insan yang mula jatuh cinta akan bersungguh untuk
mencapai kepuasan dalam cinta itu. Ada yang menjadi buta dan kabur
nilai akibat bercinta. Tapi bagi yang bijaksana mereka mendambakan
cara yang sesuai dan mulia untuk memenuhi keperluan cintanya itu.
Insan sebegini ingin hidup yang bersih dan penuh taqwa.

Sifat Cinta
Cinta itu suci,mahal dan tinggi tarafnya.Sifat cinta itu
sempurna.Jika tidak,cinta akan cacat.Itulah cinta sebenar cinta.

Cinta Wujud Sejak Dilahirkan
Rasa cinta sedia wujud di dalam jiwa manusia sejak manusia itu lahir
ke dunia.Cuma manusia akan melalui tahap-tahap kelahiran cinta
bermula dari cinta kepada belaian ibu,membawa kepada cinta
kepadakekasih dan akhirnya setelah puas mencari cinta suci,maka akan
cinta kepada Tuhan Wujudnya cinta itu tidak dapat dilihat tapi dapat
dirasa dan cinta sebenar cinta itu suci murni serta putih bersih.

Aku Suke Sangat-sangat-sangat-sangat Lagu Niey...Korang Dengar pun AKAN SUKE.. kIUT Suara Die...





Cinta Bersedia
Bila sampai masanya di setiap tahap-tahap cinta,maka Tuhan
menjadikan manusia itu bersedia menerima cinta itu.Pada mulanya jiwa
itu bersedia menerima cinta,lantas sedia pula untuk berkongsi rasa
kewujudan dengan dikasihi.Sedia untuk mengikat setia serta saling
memahami.Setia untuk dipertanggungjawapk an kerana cinta.Sedia untuk
menyerah diri pada yang dicintai.

Cinta Itu Indah
Walaupun kewujudan cinta tidak bisa dilihat,tetapi cinta itu indah
dan cantik.Cantiknya itu tulin dan tidak ia bertopeng.Bukan saja ia
cantik malah suci murni,bercahaya gemerlap dan putih bersih.

Cinta Itu Mengharap Balasan
Cinta antara manusia itu berkehendak kepada jodoh atau pasangan,dari
diri yang punya persamaan,dari diri yang asalnya satu.Bila dapat
yang dicari,bermakna cinta itu menganggap telah bertemu yang paling
sesuai dan secucuk dengan jiwanya,untuk bersatu kembali.Kehendak itu
timbal balik sifatnya kerana manusia dalam bercinta tidak hanya
menerima tapi juga menerima.

Cinta Itu Menakluki
Sifat cinta itu ingin menguasai.Dia mahu yang dikasihinya itu hanya
khusus untuk dirinya.Dia tidak mahu ianya dikongsi dengan orang
lain. Sifat ini menuntut hak untuk mencintai dan dicintai.Tapi, dalam
pada ingin menakluki,ia juga ingin ditakluki sepenuhnya.

Cinta Itu Mengetahui
Pada asasnya sebenarnya cinta itu mengetahui.Orang yang bercinta
tahu siapa yang patut dicintainya. Cinta tidak perlu bertanya.Manusia
boleh jatuh cinta tanpa membaca ilmiah atau novel tentang
cinta.Mereka tahu apa yang perlu dilakukan.Tapi, cinta cuma tahu
bercinta.Ia tidak tahu akan peraturan cinta jika tiada diberikan
panduan.

Cinta Itu Hidup
Cinta adalah ibarat manusia,boleh berputik,lalu mekar serta boleh
layu dan gugur.Cinta itu punya deria dan perasaan.Cinta mendengar
cinta,berkata cinta,melihat cinta.Cinta ada segala-galanya. Sayang,
benci,cemburu, gembira,sedih, tenang,tertekan, ketawa dan menangis.
Cinta itu hidup sampai satu ketika ia akan menemui mati.Tapi ramai
orang berharap agar cinta itu kekal selagi dia masih hidup dan tetap
hidup walaupun telah mati.

Cinta Itu Suci
Sebagaimana yang banyak dikatakan orang,cinta itu suci.Sucinya cinta
bukan bermakna ia tidak mengharap balasan. Cinta mengharap balasan
cinta.Sucinya cinta bermakna ia tidak bernoda dan tidak pula berdosa
Itulah sifat asal cinta,ia suci bagaikan anak yang baru lahir.Mereka
yang kenal erti cinta akan cuba mengekalkan cinta itu sesuci
mungkin. Mengekalkan cinta suci bermakna menjauhkan ia dari godaan
nafsu yang tidak ada batasan.Kerana nafsulah cinta suci jadi bernoda
dan berdosa.

Cinta Itu Mempesona
Cinta itu bukan saja indah,tapi mempersonakan. Ia bukan kerana cinta
itu nakal sifatnya tapi kerana ia suci dan bersih.Ia adalah
sebagaimana anda melihat pada anak kecil yang comel dan bersih.Dia
senyum pada anda dan merapati anda. Anda terpesona kerana bukan saja
ianya comel,tapi kerana dia adalah insan yang tidak berdosa.Kerana
sifat cinta yang mempersona ini selalunya manusia itu berbuat silap
bila bercinta.Apa saja yang dilakukan oleh
kekasihnya.. .mempersonakanny a dan nampak cantik serta betul walaupun
itu adalah satu dosa dan akan menodai cinta itu sendiri. Itulah juga
yang menyebabkan orang yang bercinta itu walaupun seorang yang
bijaksana,akan menjadi bodoh kerana pesona cinta.Akal itu mampu
dikalahkan oleh nafsu.Nafsu itu tidak bisa dikalahkan melainkan jika
anda sentiasa ingat kepada Tuhan Maha Pencipta.

Apakah itu Bukti Cinta?
Cinta perlukan bukti.Ramai orang percaya bahawa bukti cinta itu
ialah mengorbankan atau menyerahkan apa saja yang kekasih anda
mahu.Mereka percaya jika itu tidak berlaku,maka cinta itu tidak
tinggi nilainya.

Sebenarnya anggapan itu tidak tepat.Jika anda beri semua yang dia
mahu,apakah yang tinggal pada anda? Benarkah dia cinta pada anda
bila dia mahukan pengorbanan anda?

Cinta sejati tidak memusnahkan atau merosakkan diri kekasih yang
dicintai. Malah ia menjaga agar kekasih tetap suci dan selamat
sebagaimana sucinya cinta itu sendiri

“Janganlah hendaknya kecintaan anda terhadap sesuatu itu membuatkan
anda menjadi lupa dan kebencian anda terhadap sesuatu itu membuatkan
anda menjadi hancur”

- Saidina Umar Ibnul Khattab -

Cinta Vs SuKa

CINTA KE ATAU SUKE???

Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta, hati kita akan berdegup kencang…Tapi di depan orang yang kita suka, hati kita akan gembira…


Jikalau kita lihat di dalam mata orang yang kita cinta, kita akan kaku…Tapi jikalau kita melihat ke dalam mata orang yang kita suka, kita akan tersenyum…


Di depan orang yang kita cinta, lidah kelu untuk berkata-kata…Di depan orang yang kita suka, lidah bebas berkata apa sahaja…


Di depan orang yang kita cinta, kita menjadi malu…Di depan orang yang kita suka, kita akan tunjukkan imej yang sebenar…


Kita tidak boleh merenung mata orang yang kita cinta…Tepi kita selalu merenung mata orang yang kita suka…


Bila orang yang kita cinta menangis, kita akan turut menangis…Bila orang yang kita suka menangis, kita akan turut membuat dia gembira…


Di depan orang yang kita cinta, musim sentiasa berbunga-bunga…Di depan orang yang kita suka, musim itu cuma berangin sahaja…


Perasaan cinta bermula dari mata.Perasaan suka bermula dari telinga…Jadi, jikalau kita berhenti menyukai seseorang yang kita suka…Umpama kita membuang telinga kitaTapi jika kita cuba menutup mata Cinta berbuah menjadi airmata
Setiap orang yang akan mengalami ini dalam hidup mereka,Cuma fikirkanlah bersama-sama siapa yang anda cinta.


Tetapi, hakikatnyaCinta kepada Allah swtAdalah lebih hakiki dan abadi...



LoVe Is CiNTa
AKU sUke LaGU neh......hIgH Rate SeLeCTed..so TouChIng...

What gift we suggest to a lovely couple?

Yes it is that time for think out again…what should you give him/her ??.. .
The time of year to stress yourself out from the impending pressure of the gift exchange or gift of special day....
Well have no worries, Love Blogito is here to save the day with gift ideas for that special man or woman in your life....

Let us check it out !!!
Loving presents for ladies:
  • Bear
  • Chocolate
  • Set Bodyshop
  • A bouquet of Flowers
  • Cake....specially Lovely Secret Receipes.....
  • Jewelry
  • Wallet/purse
  • Cloth
  • Lovely card
  • Wrist watch
  • Parfume
  • Lovely Keychain
  • Set Mp3
  • Engraved Frame
  • Set of Lovely Songs or her Favourite Songs
  • A Weekend Away - completely planned and scheduled by you!

Gifts For Guys:

  • Wallet
  • Vintage T-Shirts
  • Wrist Watched
  • Tie
  • Set Parfume
  • Fog-Free Shaving Mirror
  • Vintage T-Shirts
  • Exclusive Ball Pen
  • Lovely card
  • IPod- or even more exciting the Video IPod
  • Video Camcorder - the man in your life will be very excited thinking of all the things he can do with it.

Remember it is not how much you spend, but how much thought and love you put into the gift. Good luck with your gift giving this special day soon!

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

~~~Perspektif Cinta Dalam Islam~~~

Realiti sebuah tragedi .
Asy - Syaqi bersyair :
نظرة فابتسامة فسلام فكلام فموعد فلقاء و قال الشاعر : و ما الحب إلا نظرة اثر نظرة تزيد نموا إن تزده لجاجا .
Maksudnya :
1. Main mata dan senyum lirik sebagai agenda pertama dalam aksi mengorat . Sekiranya ada response , pasangan semakin bertindak .
2. Bersahut suara dan saling hubung - menghubungi melalui surat , telefon dan sebagainya . Kesempatan ini akan digunakan oleh kedua - dua pihak untuk berbuat sesuatu agar hubungan semakin erat termasuk penggunaan mentera .
3. Merancang pertemuan ( dating ) di tempat - tempat umum untuk meluahkan perasaan masing - masing . Bungaan ayat diluahkan demi memaut hati pasangan .
Contohnye lah........:
a . Lautan api sanggupku harungi .
b . Kalau tak percaya belahlah dada .
c . Berkorban apa saja , sanggup sehidup semati .
d . Sanggupku serahkan tubuh demi cinta .
4. Tatkala kemesraan kian bersemi , pasangan bercinta teramat sukar untuk tidak ‘ menyentuh ’ antara satu sama lain . Tindakan minima , mereka akan bersentuhan bahu dan berpegangan tangan ketika berjalan .Tindakan mereka lebih berani apabila mereka beraksi di tempat sunyi seperti kelab istirehat , kelab malam , di tepi pantai dan seumpamanya .
5. Sentuhan demi sentuhan disiri pertemuan berikutnya akan mematikan rasa malu yang ada pada pasangan tersebut . Nokhtah inilah bermula sebuah cinta bernoda . Palitan kotor dan lumuran jijik melingkari cinta mereka . Namun pasangan sebegini sering beralasan sekadar ‘ ringan - ringan ’
6. Sentuhan mula dilakukan dilakukan di bahagian yang paling biasa seperti mengurai rambut dan mengusap tangan . Fenomena yang dianggap biasa ini jarang dibantah oleh pihak gadis .
7. Akhirnya rentetan sebuah realiti membawa satu tragedi hina dek rangsangan nafsu rambang .Begitulah gelumang cinta penuh noda lakonan muda mudi yang tidak berpedoman . Nafsu dan syahwat menjadi kriteria utama hidup mereka

CINTA MUDA MUDI ( REMAJA )

Mengharungi zaman modern skang niey ,banyak mencetus komunikasi berani antara manusia . Sopan susila , adat budaya dan adab bangsa kian diketepikan . Susila barat , budaya hippies dan adat rimba dibangga - banggakan sebagai trend dunia terkini.

Muda mudi adalah agensi yang terlalu ketara membantu penguatkuasaan gejala keruntuhan moral . Pergaulan bebas menjadi slogan perjuangan mereka . Hidup mereka hanyut ke tengah gelombang ganas yang membunuh aqidah .

Realiti ini suatu tragedi yang mencuit perasaan .Cinta dikalangan muda mudi turut tercemar oleh wabak jijik yang bermaharajalela . Kadang-kadang, seringkali percintaan antara mereka berakhir dengan kekecewaan dan maksiat yang keji . Betul x???

Gejala bohsia dan bohjan yang melanda negara kita hari ini , satu realiti yang mencemaskan . Nafsu mengatasi malu . Inilah bahana cinta nafsu yang tidak dibendung , malah ada pihak yang sengaja mencurah minyak di atas api yang sedang marak . Pencerobohan konsert Salem cool , Scorpion , Micheal Jackson , Inul Daratista dan lainnya ke negara kita tanpa restu dari orang yang beriman telah cukup membuktikan jenis minyak yang mereka curah ke atas api nafsu remaja yang sedang marak...

Talking With Her Ex-Boyfriend

Question 1 :
"A friend and I recently started talking about getting together. She has just removed herself from a bad relationship. She complained to me about how her ex-boyfriend made her feel like dirt. The weird thing is she still wants to talk to him. She even told me that if we get serious she doesn’t want to stop talking to him. She says he has become a very good friend. I am concerned because she has left her ex-boyfriend before and dated another man, and eventually went back to her ex-boyfriend. Am I being insecure?"

**No you are not being insecure. You are being realistic. She has shown a pattern of using men as a placeholder for her ex-boyfriend. Nobody wants or deserves to be a placeholder.
If he makes her feel like dirt she should want to distance herself from him instead of keeping him close. Communicating with her verbally abusive ex-boyfriend should be off limits if she wants to date you. She obviously feels there is a chance of them getting back together, and that is why she wants to keep lines of communication open.**


My Bestfren's Boyfriend


Question 2 :
My best friend’s boyfriend is a jerk. He makes fun of her and says mean things to her all the time. When they are around each other they usually fight. He is always making her cry and hurting her feelings. They broke up several weeks ago and she was devastated. Then he called her back crying the same night and they got back together! I’m trying to make her see that he’s not going change and they need to break up, but she can’t seem to see it. What can I do to help or make her feel better?

**Unfortunately your best friend is blinded by love. There really isn’t too much you can do to change her mind. You want her to be happy, but she isn’t when she is with him. Let her know you are concerned, and you hate to see her so upset all of the time. Make sure you stay supportive and helpful, and avoid being confrontational. Hopefully she will realize he is a jerk as time goes on. **


Blinded By Love

Question 3:
I was involved in a three year relationship that ended one year ago. Now we are talking again and both agree we belong together. He has told me I am the “love of his life”, and I truly feel the same way. He has told me he wants to take it slow, and I agree.
Recently he had a falling out with his roommates and decided to move out. The problem is he has moved in with a friend he used to mess around with. He says they are just friends now and nothing is going on. Well, they both sleep together in the same bed at night. He swears up and down that there is nothing between them and that two friends can sleep in the same bed and not mess around. It is a one bedroom apartment, and there is a living room with a couch he could sleep on. Am I being blinded by love on this one?


**Yes you are being blinded by love. Living in the same apartment and sleeping in the same bed with an ex-lover is unacceptable. There is a good chance something is going on between them. If you are the “love of his life” he should be staying with you. Move on to someone new.**

How To Break Up

You really want out of your relationship but you aren’t quite sure how to do the deed. Here are some tips and tricks on how to end that unwanted relationship smoothly.


Take Some Notes
Figure out why you want to break up. There are probably plenty of reasons, get out a pen and write them down. Now that you have all your reasons go through them and take out anything that might truly offend your partner in the heat of the moment. Telling your boyfriend he has bad breath on top of your other reasons isn’t going to help the situation. Now that you have your list of reasons prepared, take some time to memorize it so you are ready when the time comes.

Set Aside Some Time
Make sure you set aside at least 45 minutes for your break up. If you have only been dating for a few months less time may be appropriate. You don’t want to try and break off a five year relationship in five minutes. Be courteous and set aside ample time to discuss your reasons for breaking up and to answer any questions he or she might have.

Your Mistakes
Your soon to be ex will be feeling very discouraged after hearing all your reasons for breaking up. Do not forget to include your mistakes and shortcomings in the relationship. There certainly are things you could have done better. You don’t want him or her to feel like everything was their fault. Be honest with yourself and admit to your mistakes.

Do It In Person
Never breakup with someone over the phone, through text-message, or over email. It is disrespectful and cowardly. You want to make sure you are some place private, nobody wants to go through something like this in public or in front of friends. You would prefer to have “the talk” at their apartment or home. You want to be able to leave if things get out of hand, and you won’t have that option at your place.

Follow Through
After the break up is complete, follow through. Don’t call your ex the next day or invite them over to hang out. Leave them alone and give them some time to heal. Don’t decide the next day you want to get back together with your ex. You are disrespecting your ex as well as the relationship by changing your mind so quickly. If you had valid reasons for breaking up, they would not have disappeared overnight. The lesson here is don’t break up unless you really mean it. Pulling someone in and out of a relationship is cruel and unnecessary.

Be Prepared
Be prepared for an emotional reaction. You should be ready to deal with anger, crying, begging, insults, or any combination of those emotions. It can be a difficult and traumatic experience for the person you are breaking up with, you should expect them to act accordingly. Stay calm and firm about your reasons and let them know it is really over. Be compassionate and understanding, but do not give in to any begging or crying. Do not retaliate or get into a screaming match if he or she becomes upset. Stay calm and rational at all costs.

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Signs Of Cheating !!!

Do you ever wonder if your partner is "cheating" on you?
Do you have a sneaking suspicion he is sneaking around? It can be difficult discovering whether or not your mate is cheating. Here are 5 warning signs to be on the lookout for..!!!
Defensive Attitude
Your girlfriend gets very defensive whenever you ask innocent questions about where she has been or who she was talking to. People who are feeling nervous about their cheating will become defensive of normally routine questions and immediately start making accusations themselves. A example would be an innocent question followed by a defensive response:

(Innocent Question) : “Hey, who called you when we were at dinner?”
(Defensive Response) : “Why do you always have to ask so many questions? Mind your own business.”

No Conversation
You try to start a conversation with your boyfriend but all you get is one word answers or “not now”. He is cold to you and could care less about your concerns or emotions. He has no interest in talking to you about anything. This is a good sign he isn’t interested in you anymore and might be looking elsewhere for conversation.

Bad Moods
Your girlfriend always seems happy when leaving to go to work or leaving to go anywhere without you. Whenever you two are spending time together she seems miserable and depressed. She never wants to go anywhere with you, she would rather stay home or go out by herself. Constant bad moods whenever you are around is a sure sign something might be going on behind your back.

Too Many Lies
You are always catching your girlfriend in lies. She says she went to the office to catch up on work, but you find out from a friend she was at the mall. Lies represent a lack of trust and commitment on her part. If the lies keep piling up, you should be concerned she is trying to hide something from you

New Clothes
Your boyfriend buys a bunch of new clothes and starts concerning himself more and more with his appearance. You notice him taking longer than usual to get ready before work, or meticulously adjusting his hair before he “goes out with his friends”. He is constantly checking his appearance whenever he is getting ready to leave the house without you. He is trying to look good for someone, and it isn’t you.

Check it out now !!!

100 Languages " I LOVE U"


How to say I Love You in 100 Languages ???

English - I love you

Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)
Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
Albanian - Te dua
Armenian - Yes kez sirumem


Bambara - M'bi fe
Bengali - Ami tomake bhalobashi
Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te


Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan - T'estimo
Chinese - Wo ai ni
Cherokee - Tsi ge yu i
Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol - Mi aime jou
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te

Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
Elvish - Amin mela lle
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian - Afgreki'

Faroese - Eg elski teg
Farsi - Doset daram
Filipino - Mahal kita
Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore


Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
Georgian - Mikvarhar
German - Ich liebe dich
Greek - S'agapo
Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo

Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian - Aloha Au Ia`oe
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Hebrew to male: "ani ohev otcha" (said by male)
"Ohevet ot'cha" (said by female)

Icelandic - Eg elska tig
Ilonggo- Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Inuit - Negligevapse
Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
Italian - Ti amo

Japanese - Aishiteru ....atau...or.... Anata ga daisuki desu

Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili - Nakupenda
Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
Korean - Sarang Heyo...atau..or... Nanun tangshinul sarang hamnida

Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es tevi miilu
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lithuanian - Tave myliu
Luxembourgeois - Ech hun dech gi

Macedonian - Te Sakam
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Maltese - Inhobbok Mandarin
Marathi - Me tula prem karto
Mohawk - Kanbhik
Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik

Nahuatl- Ni mits neki
Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg

Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
Persian - Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish - Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese - Eu te amo

Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu

Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian - Volim te
Setswana - Ke a go rata
Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux - Techihhila
Slovak - Lu`bim ta
Slovenian - Ljubim te
Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
Swedish - Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
Surinam - Mi lobi joe
Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)
Thai - (informal) Rak te
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum

Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo

Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)

Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di

Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba - Mo ni fe








Monday, August 27, 2007

PETANDA DIE ADALAH JODOHMU...

Tahu tak bile kite terjumpe seseorang dan berpasangan dengannya,ada tak terdetik dalam hati kamu yang dia adalah My Mr.Right,My Soulmate and Soul....???


Hanya dengan menatap mata dan mendengar suaranya,kita akan merasakan getaran dan seolah ingin hidup bersamanyer???
Then, let us see apakah ada petanda lainnya agar seseorang dapat merasakan bahawa si dia adalah jodoh ( soulmate) kita atau bukan???

PETANDA PERTAMA :
Salah satu kriteria yang menentukan sesuainya dia atau tidak,sebagai jodoh kamu atau bukan,adalah kemampuannya bersikap bersahaja di depan kamu. Cuba sekarang perhatikan apa gerak gerinya,cara berpakaian,gaya rambutnya,caranya berbicara serta gelak tawanya,mengesankan apa adanya?apakah ucapannya slalu tampak spontan dan tidak dibuat-buat?Jika tidak,maaf,dia bukan jodoh kamu.

PETANDA KEDUA :
Rahsia sepasang kekasih agar dapat memiliki usia hubungan yang panjang adalah dengan adanya saling kerjasama. Kamu dan dia dapat saling membantu samaada dlm perkara remeh ataupun masalah besar.Paling penting adalah kamu berdua selalu dapat melalui sgala aspek khidupan secara bersama-sama. Dan semuanya terasa amat menyenangkan meskipun tanpa harus melibatkan orang lain. Apakah kamu pernah merasakan perkara tersebut?? Jika ya,maka selamat....mungkin dia la pendamping hidup kamu...

PETANDA KETIGA :
Ada deria batiniah membuat hati kamu berdua dapat selalu saling tahu.Dan bila kamu atau si dia dapat membaca fikiran kamu dan menduga reaksi serta perasaannya satu sama lainnya pada situasi tertentu. Maka ..dia lah sebenarnya destinasi kebahagiaan kamu..

PETANDA KEEMPAT:
Ketika bersamanya,perasaan kamu amat selesa,dan berasa tenang tanpa perasaan tertekan. Walaupun berjam-jam,berhari-hari bersamanya takkan merasa bosan...ini lah petanda kelak kamu akan saling terikat..

PETANDA KELIMA:
Dia tidak terlalu peduli dengan masa lalu keluarga kamu dan tidak peduli masa lalu kamu dengan kekasih sebelumnya terdahulu.Dia juga tidak malu-malu menceritakan masa lalunya..kalaulah mcm ni,bermakna si dia memang dah bersedia menerima kamu apa adanya...

PETANDA KEENAM:
Setiap orang memiliki kekurangan dan kamu tidak malu-malu memperlihatkan padanya,bahkan saat kamu tampil "buruk" didepannya,misalnya baru bangun tidur atau saat kamu sakit,tak mandi 2 hari,atau kamu menceritakan sejujur-jujurnya kelemahan kamu pada si dia....MEMANG kamu diciptakan dan ditakdirkan bersama dengannya...

PETANDA KETUJUH:
Dia slalu ada bersama kamu tak kira apa jua pun situasi kamu ,samada suka dan duka,dalam semua keadaan,ingatlah sewaktu kita susah,ada tak si dia orang pertama bersama kita? Apakah dia tahu kita sedang sakit atau tidak...?hmm..Jikalau ya, si dia lah yang akan sentiasa berada dengan mu pada masa hadapan..

PETANDA KELAPAN :
Bila rahsia kamu lebih selamat di tangannya berbanding teman-temanmu yang lain.Adakah kamu merasa sudah tidak dapat menyimpan ape-ape rahsia darinya,maka berbahagialah..kerana pasangan sejati kamu telah ditemukan...

Beza Lelaki dan Perempuan

Nak Tahu Tak,Ape beza Lelaki N Wanita???

Dari sumber-sumber yang dipercayai lah, kaji slidik mengatakan bahawa....:

  1. Wanita sangat menimbang-nimbang masalah..suke pk byk...dan perubahan sehari2...
  2. Lelaki lebih suka berbicara langsung,sesuai tujuannyer,manakala perbicaraan wanita terputus-putus dgn keraguan dan perasaan.Disebabkan serabut atra kedua perantaraan belahan otak kanan dan kiri (intuisi &logika), makanya ia lebih terjadi pd kaum wanita,shingga perasaan ekspresi terjadi pd wanita,kirenya lebih terpancar lah memek muka@pun air wajah nyer...
  3. Kebanyakan wanita mengambil masa tidur lebih satu jam dari kaum lelaki pada waktu malam.
  4. Bayi perempuan lebih cepat berjalan dan berbicaram,manakala bayi lelaki 2 bulan lebih lambat..
  5. Sperma lelaki yang menentukan jenis jantina bayi...
  6. Wanita lebih baik indra penciumannya disebabkan tingginya hormon estrogenyang diketahui sebagai hormon activator reseptor penciuman..
  7. Hubungan rapat/intim lelaki ( di luar penikahan) dua kali ganda lebih banyak dari perempuan..hmm..hmm.........JAGA2!!
  8. Mata lelaki rata2nye lebih besar berbanding mata wanita yang lebih banyak bahagian yang berwarna putih.
  9. Secara umum,hidung lelaki lebih besar dari wanita. Sedangkan wanita rata2 mempunyai bibir yang lebih besar berbanding lelaki..
  10. Lelaki akan memberi ruang yg lebih besar berhadapan dgn kaum nya sendiri ketika berkomunikasi,tak nak orang pk bukan2 lah tuh agaknya..
  11. Kira-kira 40% lelaki berdengkur berbanding 22% wanita ketika tidur..
  12. Jumlah wanita lebih banyak pergi ke tandas berbanding lelaki,dan wanita lebih suka ke tandas sebab suka2....nak betul2kan tudung la,make up la...
  13. Kebanyakan lelaki bila berhadapan dengan wanita,akan menjadi tergagap berbanding perempuan bila berkomunikasi..
  14. Kebanyakan cinta wanita lebih sedikit TETAPI sangat menghargai dan setia berbanding lelaki yang cinta banyak DAN senang curang..
  15. Lebih kurang 30% kaum wanita yang seksual nye lebih aktif pada masa bulan purnama....
  16. Rata-rata lelaki membaca lebih lama berbanding wanita,manakala membaca berkali2 adalah lebih ramai pada kaum wanita...
  17. Perkahwinan yang memuaskan lebih banyak terjadi pada lelaki dengan usia lebih tua, dibanding pada wanita usia yang sama...
  18. Kebanyakan wanita lebih suka pasangannya bergaya,bersih dan ke arah metroseksual....manakal kebanyakan lelaki pula lebih suka tgk yang BUKAN PASANGAN NYA bergaya,seksi meksi,terbelah sana sini DAN TIDAK SUKA pasangannya berketrampilan begitu...ape nak jadi tah..
  19. Kebanyakan lelaki lebih suka memendamkan masalah dari pasangan nye berbanding wanita DAN takut di pandang lemah..

What women want???

A man must have a purpose himself
This reflects his will and strength in decision making. It also goes to show his degree of commitment when it comes to entering into a relationship. Most women look for this trait in a man for they feel that this would reflect his attitude and approach towards the relationship

Protective
Women have a tendency to see how protective their male partner is. Does he have the makings of being a good husband and a caring father? Bearing these aspects in mind she seeks a person who has a protective nature.

Healthy and strong
There is a general perception that women like men who are healthy and strong. This could be with regard to their physique as well as their emotional framework. Reasons could be many ranging from a healthy sex life to bearing an offspring. A healthy body goes a long way in this regard.

Confidence in one's self!
This is one aspect which also acts as a determinant in a woman choosing a man. A confident man shows the tenets of surviving in austere and trying conditions. This also reflects the mental make up of the man. What also draws a woman's attention is the body language of the man. A positive body language goes a long way in winning a female partner.

Sense of Caring
Men who show a genuine sense of caring also get the attention of women. Women like to feel as if they have your heart, and you will do anything for them. You don't have to spend a bunch of money, or give up your poker night, just melt a little when she comes in the room, and continue to be a man she can respect, so she feels special about being with you.
So it wouldn't be a bad idea for you to arrange a unique evening for your partner and cook a meal for her instead of buying her expensive gifts as the former will show your sense of caring!

Funny and witty
A few women also look for a sense of wit and a certain degree of humour in their man. So, if your kick off a witty conversation with your lady and top it with a few jokes then you have made your mark!

Men who are their real self
A woman looks for a certain sense of novelty with regard to her man. No degree of farce will help a man to get his woman for the farce won't last for long. So it is better that he remains his own self and presents his natural demeanor to his couple

Men are hard to pleased.

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are INLOVE with him

If u Don't, he says u are PROUD

If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are tryingto LURE him

If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG

If u ARGUE with him, he says u areSTUBBORN

If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS

If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE

If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT

If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u

If u Love him, he will try to LEAVEu (very true huh?)

If u don't make love with him., he saysu don't Love him

If u do he says u are CHEAP

If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says uare TROBLESOME

If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him

If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him

If he SCOLDS u , it is because he CARESfor u (Bullshit)

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot beTRUSTED

If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl

If he SMOKES , he is GENTLEMEN.If u do WELL in your exams, he says it'sLUCK

If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.If u HURT him, u are CRUEL

If he HURTS u, u are too ! SENSITIVE!!& so hard to please!!!!!

If u send this to guys, they will swearthat it's not true.......but if u don't, they say u are selfish

If u do WELL in your exams, he says it'sLUCK

If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.

Memang betul..kebanyakan lelaki memang banyak yang macamtu,tapi bila perempuan mengiya kannya,maka kaum lelaki akan melenting ...tapi....TAK SEMUA kaum lelaki macamtu...

Dari La Tahzan-ILMU PENGETAHUAN DAPAT MEMBERIKAN KEBAHAGIAAN KEPADA ANDA:"Dan (juga karena) Allah telah menurunkan Kitab dan hikmah kepadamu, dan telah mengajarkan kepadamu apa yang belum kamu ketahui"[An Nisa ayat 113] Kebodohan itu adalah tanda kematian jiwa,terbunuhnya kehidupan dan mensia-siakan umur."Sesungguhnya Aku memperingatkan kepadamu supaya kamu jangan termasuk orang-orang yang tidak berpengetahuan"[Surah Hud ayat 46].Sesungguhnya kebahagiaan dan keceriaan itu datang bersama ilmu pengetahuan.Ini kerana ilmu mampu mengubah sesuatu yg tidak jelas,menemukan sesuatu yang telah hilang dan menyingkap sesuatu yang tersembunyi.Dengan ilmu,jiwa manusia akan memperolehi pengetahuan yang baru dan selalu ingin mengkaji pengetahuan yang lain..

Sunday, August 26, 2007

Huh..!! Haih..How to Let Him Know You’re Interested..


You won’t believe how often we hear this from the ladies, “I really like this guy, how do I let him know I am interested?”



Have Fun
Keep a playful, fun attitude. Above all you must keep it relaxed and fun. This lets your crush feel comfortable and willing to open up to you. Use this playful atmosphere to hint at your romantic intentions with small quips and flirty remarks. Be subtle, cute, and fun in your efforts to woo your crush. Once he is having fun, he will be more open to your advances.


Ice Breaker
The first move is often the hardest, especially when you are admiring a crush from afar. It is usually assumed it is the guys job to make that crucial first move. This rule isn’t set in stone, ladies can make the first move too. A great way to break the ice is a short and simple question, “I couldn’t help but notice you, would you be interested in going for coffee or lunch sometime?”. It may feel awkward and bold but you can do it. What have you got to lose anyway? Men we interviewed are almost always turned on by a girl who makes the first move:
“I love it when a girl asks me out, it lets me know right away I am dealing with someone who is driven and isn’t scared to lose.” -Edzrin 30
“There is nothing sexier than a woman asking me out on a date. I love a girl who knows what she wants, especially when it’s me!” -Dazzy, 28


Stay Open
It is important to keep your body language open and inviting when talking with your crush. This doesn’t mean opening your legs and licking your lips. This does mean keeping eye contact while holding a conversation, and smiling often. You want to appear comfortable, caring, and confident.


Tough Talk
It can be tough for a girl who wants to let her crush or good friend know she is interested. You feel awkward, you want to let him know, but you don’t want to come on too strong and send him running. In fact, the last thing you want is to do is scare him away. Here are some sure-fire subtle moves you can make to let him know you are the girl for him. You will be on that first date before you know it.


The Power of Touch
What about that guy at work you hit it off with? How do you send the right signal? One of the strongest signals you can give a guy is a subtle touch and a quick glance into his eyes. The timing has to be right, and you don’t want to grope him. Just a light touch on the shoulder and a quick glance in the eyes will do the trick. Make sure you don’t go overboard with this one, touch him too much or too often and he might be scared away.


Tips in Keeping True Relationship

Are you tired of those sissy "friendship" poems that always sound good, but never actually come close to reality?

Well, here is a series of promises that actually speak of true friendship.
You will see no cutesy little smiley faces on this blogito... just the stone cold truth of our friendship.


1 .When you are sad -- I will help you plot revenge against the sorry bastard who made you that way.
2. When you are blue -- I will try to dislodge whatever is choking you.
3. When you smile -- I will know you finally got laid.
4. When you are scared -- I will rag on you about it every chance I get.
5. When you are worried -- I will tell you horrible stories about how much worse it could be until you quit whining.
6. When you are confused -- I will use little words and speak slowly.
7. When you are sick -- Stay the hell away from me until you are well again. I don't want to catch whatever you have.
8. When you fall -- I will point and laugh at your clumsy ass.
9. This is my oath..... I pledge it to the end. "Why?" you may ask?


Friendship is like peeing your pants: everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth.


An Open Letter To A Woman Who Wants To ATTRACT And KEEP Mr. Right...

Dear all my friends...


I'd like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them...
Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt?

You were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into you the same way you were into him?
In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong "chemistry" that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with you.

Another one..........
Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen?
Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place.......... but you did it anyway.
And finally.........
Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time... I'm talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer... and it was getting to the point where you needed to have "the talk" with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from you... and the relationship ended soon after?
You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you.
I'm guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like:
"He's just a jerk, forget about him".

Or they said: "He doesn't see the mistake he's making or what he'll be missing". But he never seemed to see these mistakes... or even miss you.
And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it.


In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I'll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk).

In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place... and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently...

Unfortunately, the bad news is that you're probably right.
Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation.

You COULD have done something about it... if only you had known WHAT to do...

well....thats why a man Gets 'Scared Away' when you try To Get Him To Commit For The Long-Term-And what to do About It..."

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